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Book listing: Loss

The books available from our library under the "Loss" category are listed below.

Members are invited to submit their own reviews of books, so if you have read and enjoyed one, please email your comments to dcsg@optushome.com.au.

Please note that only DCSG members based in Australia may borrow library items, to be returned within 30 days. To check availability of a book to borrow, click on the book name for the "request availability" direct email link.

The types of issues raised in these books include:
Coping with grief
Miscarriage
Stillbirth
Overcoming the physical and emotional trauma
Women's stories of grief after abortion
Loss
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Coping with Grief - Based on the ABC radio series, revised edition
By Mal McKissock
Australia 2001
Coping with grief

From the introduction: “The experience of grief, in response to loss, is known to all human beings, regardless of age, sex, creed and culture. The extremes of this grief appear when one loses a close and meaningful relationship. Death, divorce, separation, abortion, the loss of a limb or lifestyle, even forced retirement will precipitate this most painful human emotion.”


Coping with a Miscarriage
by Hank Pizer and Christine O'Brien Palinski
USA 1980
Coping with a Miscarriage

From the back cover:“[this book] endeavours to demystify this often misunderstood subject by giving a clear explanation of its causes and process and of the treatments available.”


Empty Arms - Coping with miscarriage, stillbirth and infant death
by Sherokee Ilse
USA 1996
Empty Arms

From the back cover: “Empty Arms is a unique and encouraging book that reaches out to all who have been touched by infant death or miscarriage. With compassion and sensitivity, the author offers practical suggestions and support for decision-making at the time of the loss and for the future. Whether the loss is recent or occurred years ago, Empty Arms will offer comfort and hope.”


Giving sorrow words - Women's stories of grief after abortion
By Melinda Tankard Reist
Australia 2000
Giving sorrow words

From the back cover: “Giving Sorrow Words includes the personal accounts of 18 women and draws on the experiences of more than 200 others. Listen to the voices of women until now silenced in the abortion debate; women who have suffered lasting emotional shock but who have so far not being heard.”


Hidden Loss: Miscarriage & Ectopic Pregnancy
Edited by Kate Mosse (second edition)
The Women's Press Handbook Series
Hidden Loss

From the back cover: “One in five pregnancies fails. Yet miscarriage remains a footnote in most pregnancy books, its emotional and physical impact minimised. Breaking the long silence around this experience, Hidden Loss recognises miscarriage and ectopic pregnancy as bereavement. Beginning with women's own personal accounts, this invaluable handbook explores:

  • Why and how pre-birth loss may occur;
  • The physical and emotional consequences of pre-birth loss, and the experience of mourning;
  • Its impact on partners, friends and relationships;
  • Medical opinions, treatments and practices;
  • Strategies and resources to aid the healing process;
  • Includes ectopic pregnancy, spontaneous abortions and planned terminations”.

Loss of a Baby - Understanding maternal grief
by Margaret Nicol
Australia 1999
Loss of a Baby

From the back cover: “Loss of a Baby presents various strategies for anyone having to cope directly with the death of a child, but it is also addressed to all who have contact with a grieving mother.

Relatives and friends, doctors, nurses and other caregivers, her partner, especially, will learn much from this book.”


Miscarriage - Information for Parents and Families
Produced by SANDS (NSW)
Australia 1995
Miscarriage

From the back cover: “SANDS is a parent-based organisation which offers support to parents who have experienced miscarriage, stillbirth, neonatal or infant death. SANDS has available parent supporters, support groups, literature, libraries and a regular newsletter, for those in both metropolitan and country areas [across Australia].”


Miscarriage - Overcoming the physical and emotional trauma
by Wendy Jones
Great Britain 1990
Miscarriage

The medical and emotional aspects of losing a conceived child before the twenty eight week of pregnancy.

From the back cover: “...sheds light on both the physical and emotional effects of miscarriage and offers help and advice on a wide range of issues including:

  • Where to find assistance
  • The problems of coping
  • Relationships with partners and families
  • New and pioneering research on immunotherapy - which achieved a “take-home-baby rate” of 70 per cent.”

Miscarriage
by Margaret Leroy
Great Britain 1988

Published in co-operation with The Miscarriage Association
Miscarriage

From the back cover: “ ...[this book] provides comprehensive medical information and emotional support for women and their families. Topics covered include:

  • What happens when you miscarry
  • What are the causes and what can you do to help
  • How you and your partner may feel
  • How friends and relatives can best offer support
  • How to give your next pregnancy every chance of success.”

Taking control:successful pregnancy after miscarriage
by Diana Plater
Australia 1997
Taking control

Diana interviewed many women and their partners who have experienced pregnancy loss and their stories of courage and hope appear throughout Taking Control.

This is a positive book filled with practical information.


When The Dream is Shattered
by Judith and Michael Murray
Australia 1988
When the dream is shattered

Coping with Child-bearing difficulties, infertility, miscarriage, premature birth, stillbirth, neonatal death, abnormalities.

From the back cover: "a practical and compassionate book written by a couple who have themselves experienced...pain and disappointment. The authors desceibe in simple conversational language the various medical problems encountered in child-bearing and the process of grief that sufferers gro through. They also suggest avenues of help that are available".


When Your womb is Empty
by Anita Henry- Peris
Australia, 1998
When your womb is empty

This book has been written to give courage and to support those suffering, as well as help their friends and family understand.

From the back cover: “The author's personal story, and a sensitive selection of case studies from around the world will inspire you, as you familiarise yourself with the feelings felt around the world.

Within this book is a plan of attack which offers remedial options you may wish to try in order to improve your chances of conception. Also included is a survival guide which takes you through difficult day to day scenarios experienced by those suffering from involuntary childlessness.


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