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Book listing: For children

The books available from our library under the "For Children " category are listed below.

Members are invited to submit their own reviews of books, so if you have read and enjoyed one, please email your comments to dcsg@optushome.com.au.

Please note that only DCSG members based in Australia may borrow library items, to be returned within 30 days. To check availability of a book to borrow, click on the book name for the "request availability" direct email link.

The types of issues raised in these books include:
How to tell your child about their conception
Explaining the IVF process
Talking about donors
Family issues and relationships
Explaining infertility and the facts of life
What role does my family history play in my life
Identity issues
Using pictures to help explain difficult topics
Third party conception
Offers children simple non-judgemental explanations of sexual intercourse, DI, IVF, GIFT, Pregnancy, Birth, Adoption and Surrogacy
For Children
Family Ties That Bind
by Dr Ronald W Richardson
Canada, 1984
Family Ties that Bind

Self help guide to change through family of origin therapy

Contents include:

  • Families are strange creatures
  • You never talk to me — closeness and distance among family members
  • You're not better, just different — dealing with differences
  • How to be true to yourself and still have friends
  • Triangles in relationships
  • You's on first? — birth order and gender position in the family of origin
  • Doing the work

How Babies and Families are made
(There is more than one way!)
by Patricia Schaffer
USA, 1988
How babies and families are made

From the back cover: “Deals with the concept of “family” as a changing entity related to the mores and conventions of our times. The mystery of procreation and birth is well described and should help children.”

Preface: “When a child asks about where babies come from, it is almost necessary to have a book with pictures that help you to explain.”


How I Began The story of Donor Insemination
by the NSW Infertility Social Workers Group, Australia 1998
How I began

Story for children, briefly explains conception and donor insemination in words and pictures.

Edited by Julia Paul, Illustrated by Merri Spencer


Let Me Explain
by Jane Schnitter
Let me explain

A story about Donor Insemination Jane T. Schnitter. Aimed at children aged 7-10 years, explains the complicated concept of Donor Insemination.

Written for children between 6 and 10 this illustrated 30 page book, published in the USA, takes a child's matter of fact view about her conception by DI, and her close connection to her one and only Dad. Text and pictures combine to create a reassuring message that this form of family building has produced a family where dad and daughter get silly together, fight, talk and play in a normal loving relationship, while the young girl understands the facts and implications of how she was conceived.


Mommy, did I grow in your Tummy?
by Elaine Gordon
Mommy, did I grow in your tummy?
This book is simply and sensitively written to help parents explain to young children about the different ways babies may be conceived, including IVF, egg and sperm donation and surrogacy. It is well illustrated, and also describes adoption in an easy to understand way.

My Story for children conceived by donor insemination (DI)
by Sheffield Uni. Dept. of Obst. & Gyn
Great Britain
Our story

Story for children, briefly explains D.I. in words and pictures. (4 Copies)

“Mummy and Daddy were very sad when no baby began to grow. Then the doctor said there was a way for them to have a baby. Some very kind men give their sperm so people like Mummy and Daddy can have a baby. At last Mummy and Daddy had a baby and that was me!”

This book is not available to buy through the DCSG - To purchase this book, please go to http://www.dcnetwork.org/

DCSG Members can borrow this book from the DCSG library.


Our Story for children conceived by DI into single parent families
by Nicola Baxter for the Donor Conception Network Great Britain
Our story - single parents

“One day I said 'Have I got a dad?' Then Mum told me all about how a hospital helped her to have a baby, even though she hadn't met the right person to be my dad. I am really proud my Mum could do this and I am proud of us and our family.”

This book is not available to buy through the DCSG - To purchase this book, please go to http://www.dcnetwork.org/

DCSG Members can borrow this book from the DCSG library.


Our Story for children conceived by DI into lesbian parent families
Written for the Donor Conception Network Great Britain
Our story

“One day I said 'Have I got a dad?' Then my mums told me all about how a hospital helped them to have a baby - me! I am really happy my mums could do this and I am proud of us and our family.”

This book is not available to buy through the DCSG - To purchase this book, please go to http://www.dcnetwork.org/

DCSG Members can borrow this book from the DCSG library.


Sometimes it Takes Three to Make a Baby
Written by Kate Bourne and illustrated by Ron Thompson
To purchase, go to http://www.mivf.com.au
Sometimes it takes three to make a baby

Written by an infertility counsellor, "Sometimes It Takes Three to Make a Baby" is primarily written for young children to help them understand the way they began. It will also be of interest to their parents, friends and family and to egg donors and their children.

The very first child resulting from IVF using donated eggs was born in 1983. Since then, the use of donor eggs has become a viable option for women who are unable to produce their own eggs. The egg donor may be anonymous or may be a relative or friend of the woman. Whilst there is a wealth of resources to assist parents in telling their child about natural conception, little information is available to help parents who have conceived their child using donor eggs.

This book is not available for purchase through DCSG, to purchase this book, please go to http://www.mivf.com.au

DCSG Members can borrow this book from the DCSG library.

» Book review written by DCSG member, Karen, from SA

"I read this book with my 6 year old son, (who was conceived using a donor egg). We both enjoyed sharing the story about his special beginning and the colourful and lightly humorous illustrations. It is definitely going on my 'must have' book list, as I'm sure that my son will want to have it as his own book, to read and ask more questions about his beginning as his understanding grows.

The book is written for children aged from 3 to 9 years of age. It is divided into three sections: the first part is the story about donor conception and how the child made his beginning; the second part is where the child can add drawings/photos and information about their family and themselves as a baby; and lastly the third part includes a note for parents and friends, with some very useful information, and an explanation from a couple, about how they told their daughter of her conception.

This is an excellent book to have, if your child was conceived using a donor egg"

Thank you Karen


The Mulberry Bird
by Anne Braff Brodzinsky, Phd
The Mulberry Bird
An adoption story aimed at 5 – 10 year old adoptees.

Where did I really come from?
Written by Narelle Wickham, Illustrated by Ingrid Urh
Australia 1992
Where did I really come from?

This book has been written to help parents and teachers answer the age-old question, “Where did I come from?”

Offers children simple non-judgemental explanations of sexual intercourse, DI, IVF, GIFT, Pregnancy, Birth, Adoption and Surrogacy


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