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Book listing: Donor Conception

The books available from our library under the "Donor Conception" category are listed below.

Members are invited to submit their own reviews of books, so if you have read and enjoyed one, please email your comments to dcsg@optushome.com.au.

Please note that only DCSG members based in Australia may borrow library items, to be returned within 30 days. To check availability of a book to borrow, click on the book name for the "request availability" direct email link.

The types of issues raised in these books include:
Donor conception
History of DI
The emotional aspects, bonding and disclosure issues
Prospective DI recipients - what to consider
Identity issues
Legal aspects
Donor Conception
Artificial Insemination
by Wilfred Finegold
USA, 1976
Artificial insemination
This is the second edition of this book, the first being published in 1964. This book is in our collection for it’s historical value. It covers the history of ‘D.I.’ and the prevailing attitudes of doctors in the U.S.A. at the time. Some people may laugh at this book, others may be disgusted by the views it expresses.

Building Your Family Through Egg Donation
by Joyce Sutkamp Friedman.
Building your family through egg donation
What you will want to know about the emotional aspects, bonding and disclosure issues.

Choosing Assisted Reproduction
by Susan L.Cooper and Ellen S. Glazer
USA, 1998
Choosing Assisted Reproduction

From the back cover: “Addressing each of the available and assisted technologies and all of the potential participants in them, (the authors) examine the complex and interrelated medical, psychosocial, and ethical issues involved in family building through the assisted reproductive technologies.”


Choosing to be open about donor conception:the experiences of parents
by Sharon Pettle & Jan Burn
Choosing to be open about DI
This short book reports the conversations of 52 parents with children ranging from babies to teenagers - mums and dads, single parents and lesbian couples - who took part in a series of small groups to talk about their experiences and feelings about being open with their children, family and friends about donor conception.

Topics covered include:

• influences on the decision to be open
• thoughts about secrets
• telling family and friends
• handling professionals
• dealing with remarks about resemblance
• stages in telling children
• thinking about schools and the longer term
• reflecting on the whole experience

» Book review written by DCSG member from QLD

"This booklet grew out of discussions between parents about what it is like to be parents in a family that chooses to be open about its donor conception origins. The families were formed through either donor insemination or egg donation. There are no donor embryo families represented. The test is heavily supported by quotations which speak of the issues and feelings surrounding openness. A brief statement after each quotation is very helpful in establishing the context of the speaker.

This may be a small booklet but it is jam-packed with information. It revolves generally around the decision to be open and, then, around putting the decision into practice with both the world at large (family, friends, teachers etc.) and within the family unit. There is particular thought given to issues which effect single parents and lesbian couples.

In the section on openness with children, parents acknowledge that this is not a “one off” event but a long process and looks at ways to begin the process. It includes parents talking about their children’s reactions at various life stages including the teenage years.

The booklet concludes with thoughts about the future and general reflections on the whole experience. There is also a useful section with suggestions for further reading which includes books for children. There is a lot of information in this booklet but it is delivered in a concise and clear way. Wherever you are on your journey there is something to think about or relate to."

Thank you

 

Counseling Donor Offspring
by Judith Bancroft
Australia, 2003
Counselling donor offspring

This thesis was presented as part of the requirements for a Degree of Master of Counseling of the University of Notre Dame.

An exploration of issues and implications for the Profession


Families Following Assisted Conception
by Alexina M McWhinnie
UK, 1991
No cover image available

What do we tell our Child?

The book looks at the questions of secrecy, openness in families who have children following the new assisted conception techniques should we tell our child? What sort of questions will our child ask? It’s approach is to offer to the reader the experiences and views of those who have already had to deal with these issues.

 


Families from Assisted Conception
by Dr Alexina McWhinnie
UK, 1991
Families from assisted conception. How they fared

How they fared? 6 families tell their story...

In conversations with Dr Alexina McWhinnie:

  • An IVF family with one child
  • A family with IVF triplets
  • A family from donor insemination
  • A DI adult and her quest for her donor father
  • A DI adult and the legacy of childhood secrets

 


Family Secrets
by John Bradshaw
USA, 1995
Family Secrets

“What you don’t know CAN hurt you”. A book that looks at the secrets within families such as illness, abuse, alcoholism, does include adoption and a mention of D.I.

How telling and not telling affect our children, our relationships and our lives.

 


Family Secrets:how telling and not telling Affect our children, our relationships and our Lives
by Harriet Webster
USA, 1991
Family Secrets

How keeping secrets in families can affect people. Covers such subjects as adoption, alcoholism, affairs and illness.

From the back cover: “Through down-to-earth and true-life secrets, Harriet gives us a bird's-eye view of the damage that is done when we keep family secrets... Just as importantly, she lets us in on the biggest secret of all: in sharing our shames and sorrows we grow in love and understanding.”


Having Your Baby by Donor Insemination
by Elizabeth Noble
USA, 1987
Having your baby by DI

Written by a woman who has had a D.I. child by a “known” donor. An exceptionally in depth book, very thought provoking. Has sections on coming to terms with male infertility, donors ethical questions, secrecy. It has quite a few references to Australia.

From the back cover: "...Elizabeth Noble has written a startling analysis of the practical, legal, and ethical problems infertile couples face in becoming parents through third-party conception. Noble addresses these problems by examining the technological advances that are being made in the field of “assisted conception” and discussing the lessons of adoption reform as well as her own family's experience with donor insemination."


Helping the Stork
by Carol Vercollone and H & R Moss
Helping the stork

From the back cover: “The resource book for all the information parents need to know about the choices and challenges of donor insemination.

Each year DI offers a pathway to parenthood for the hundreds of thousands who turn to family-building alternatives. Although DI is considered as often as adoption, couples facing male infertility, as well as single women and lesbian couples have had few places to turn for information about this method which has been shrouded in secrecy.”


Is Donor Egg for you ?
Steve Litt with Sylvia Reuben Litt
Is donor egg for you
Donor egg brings new hope to women over 40 and women with ovarian or genetics problems.

Lethal Secrets:The psychology of donor Insemination - Problems and solutions
by Annette Baran & Reuben Pannor
USA, 1993
Lethal secrets

The consequences and unsolved problems of D.I. quotes from parents, children and experts. (2 copies).

From the back cover: "We feel that donor insemination can be a positive method of dealing with problems of infertility. In the world of alternative means of conception, donor insemination is the parent procedure, the most available, successful, and egalitarian. Breaking the bonds of silence and ending secrecy is necessary, we believe, to address the inherent psychological problems".


Parents by Proxy
by Georges Valensin MD
United Kingdom, 1960
Parents by Proxy

Although published in 1960, this book still raises some interesting issues and from an historical perspective.

Artificial insemination is a subject that has too long suffered from the taboos and prejudices of present day society. It has been the cause of a bitter controversy, wages for the most part by the uninformed, which has prevented its use and benefit from being properly understood.


The Artificial Family
by R.Snowden and G.D.Mitchell
UK, 1983
The Artificial Family

From the back cover :“Having a baby by artificial insemination is a very difficult subject, surrounded as it is by controversy, moral and legal argument and the natural social differences which can arise.”


The Gift of a Child: A Guide to Donor Insemination
by Robert Snowden and Elizabeth Snowden
United Kingdom, 1984
The Gift of a Child
A book specifically about D.I. talks about male infertility, the prevalence of it, causes, research. Discusses childlessness. Goes through the whole D.I. process (as it is in England). Has a chapter on donors, who are they, how are they checked, how often are they used. Chapter on being a D.I. parent. Chapter on secrecy, also one on D.I. children, do we tell our children? How do they react?

Truth and the Child: Ten Years On
by Eric Blyth, Marilyn Crawshaw and Jennifer Speirs
UK, 1988
Truth and The Child

From the back cover:“[This book] focuses attention on the needs of those personally involved in assisted conception services:individuals born as a result of treatment, donors and their children, recipients and prospective parents .”


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